I am so confused, what is he really saying?

why did you break up then? if you love him, ask what happened? what went wrong? maybe he is figuring things out for himself or he is just a bit confused, im not sure but it sounds like he's the one with the issue. if he is in another relationship, especially a long distance one..they are hard to keep and i dont think he would want any interference, i think he has moved on. meaning you should too, i know it is hard but good luck :) you deserve someone good!